Marriage, as they say, is a journey. After seventeen years with my wife, I’ve learned that it’s not just about the big milestones or grand gestures. It’s about the small, everyday moments we share and how we choose to embrace them. One thing I make sure to do every week is take my wife out on a date. It doesn’t have to be formal, expensive, or elaborate. Sometimes, it’s as simple as running errands together, having coffee, or sitting on the couch, just enjoying each other’s company.
Here’s the thing: even after so many years of being together, I still find myself learning new things about my wife every day. That’s the beauty of marriage, isn’t it? You get to spend your life with someone who, in some ways, is always a bit of a mystery—a person you’re continuously getting to know, no matter how much time has passed. The more I spend time with her, the more I realize how much I enjoy those moments of discovery, even in the simplest settings.
I’ve come to understand something profound after all these years: when you get married, your spouse becomes your best friend. And that’s a friendship worth nurturing. There’s no need for extravagant outings to keep the spark alive. Sometimes, just being present with each other, without distractions, can be the most meaningful experience. It’s about the quality of time you spend together, not the quantity or cost.
Last week, my wife and I did something simple yet special. We went to the Basilica of the Black Nazarene in Quiapo, attended Mass, and prayed together. Afterward, we had lunch. To some, this might sound like a regular Sunday routine. But for us, it was a cherished time—a moment to connect spiritually, reflect, and just be in each other’s presence. It was special not because of where we were or what we did, but because we were fully immersed in the moment.
This experience made me realize something important: special moments don’t need to be expensive or complicated. The essence lies in being present and making the most of what you have. We tend to get caught up in the busyness of life, constantly checking our phones, thinking about work, or planning for the future. But this year, I want to focus on something different.
My mantra for 2025 is simple: “Enjoy every moment, try to live in it.”
This year, I’m making a conscious effort to disconnect from the distractions of social media, to stop checking my phone every minute, and to stop overthinking. I want to focus on what’s right in front of me—the people, the moments, the feelings. It’s easy to get lost in the noise, but the true beauty of life happens when you’re able to fully embrace the present.
So, to my fellow couples, don’t feel pressured to plan elaborate dates or expensive outings to show your love. Sometimes, the most memorable moments happen when you’re not trying so hard to make them special. It’s about being together, in the moment, without distractions. Whether it’s a simple errand date or a quiet evening at home, what matters most is the connection you share.
Here’s to a year of living in the moment—of appreciating the simple joys of life and love.
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